Love Lessons #2 – Masturbation for advanced enthusiasts

Miriam

14-05-2021 · 907 views · 0 comments

Welcome to masturbation for advanced enthusiasts! We assume that you’ve mastered masturbation for beginners and that you’re ready to try some new ways to spice up your solo sessions. In this blog, we’ll cover masturbation techniques for men and women and talk about which sex toys are best to use when masturbating. Get ready to get off!

Masturbating in front of the mirror

Ever considered masturbating in front of the mirror? Masturbating while watching yourself can be very exciting, and it can boost your self-esteem. Besides, it’s just fun to do something different for a change!

It will take some getting used to at first, especially if you normally watch porn during solo sex. We all tend to focus on the negative aspects of our bodies. Even the most perfect people can always point out something they don’t like. You’ll probably also know a few things that you’ll notice immediately. Remember that you’re the only one who looks at yourself this way. To achieve an orgasm, you have to concentrate on the best parts of your looks. This is how you get to know and appreciate your body more and more. And that’s a good thing, right?

Don’t have a large mirror?

It’s also fine to use a small hand mirror and it can be easily turned around for different angles
You can even use your phone (but make sure to not accidentally film anything!)

Masturbating in front of a mirror also gives you more control over your own orgasm. After all, you no longer need porn or anyone else to reach your climax. All you need is your sexy self!

Playing with temperature

Another fun alternative for masturbation is playing with different temperatures. It might sound a bit scary if you’ve never tried it, but it’s super easy and you really don’t need a huge range of sex toys to do it.

Using an ice cube or a warming lubricant already offers enough new sensations while masturbating. The main purpose of the temperature game is to arouse your body by stimulating your skin’s neuroreceptors. Stimulation through heat or cold gives the body a rush of sensations and lets you experience every touch more intensely.

“Stimulation through heat or cold gives the body a rush of sensations and lets you experience every touch more intensely.”

Masturbating for men

Sex toys for men

There are plenty of sex toys available for men to use while masturbating.

Masturbators

Do you want to get as close as possible to the feeling of sex? Then you should really try a masturbator. A masturbator is a penetrable sex toy with an opening shaped like a vagina, anus or mouth. On the inside, these sex toys for men often have a specific texture that offers additional stimulation for the penis. Most masturbators can be easily rinsed out after use and can therefore be used several times.

Did you know that…There are also masturbators shaped like the openings of various porn stars? These Fleshlight toys are hidden in the casing of a torch, so nobody needs to know what you have lying around.

Masturbation tools

Are you down with trying something entirely different? Try wearing a glove (preferably made of plastic) while masturbating. The motions you make with the glove feel just a little bit different than when you just jerk off by hand. You can also try switching up the lubricant you use. A stimulant lubricant feels slightly different than a standard water- or silicone-based lubricant.

Masturbation techniques for men

Edging

One of the best-known masturbation techniques for men is the start-stop method, also known as edging. This technique not only makes you come more intensely; it also increases your sexual stamina! With this technique, you stop wanking just before you’re about to come. After waiting a moment and watching a few more porn scenes, you pick it up again. You do this a number of times until you reach the point where you really can’t hold back any longer.

Stimulate the glans with the palm of your hand

Place your hand over your penis so that your fingers are pointing towards the base of the penis. Rub the palm of your hand over the head of the penis, as if you were squeezing an orange 😉 You can also move your hand up and down, varying the pressure and speed.

Masturbating for women

Sex toys for women if you’re just starting out

There are loads of fun sex toys for women that make masturbation more enjoyable. A vibrator can also be an excellent alternative if you have trouble coming using just your fingers.

Do you have little or no experience with sex toys? Start with a toy made of silicone. Silicone feels wonderfully soft on the skin, it’s flexible, and it’s also easy to keep clean.

“Silicone feels wonderfully soft on the skin, it’s flexible, and it’s also easy to keep clean.”

Clitoral stimulation

Most vibrators are aimed at stimulating the vagina, and particularly the clitoris. These toys are called clitoral vibrators. A mini vibrator can also be used for this purpose. These are compact vibrators suitable for targeted stimulation, so they’re also perfect for the clitoris.

Another way to stimulate the clitoris is by using an air pressure vibrator. These toys stimulate the clitoris without physical contact by means of air pressure waves. It feels as if something is gently sucking your clitoris. The only thing you have to do is place the mouth over the clitoris, and the toy will lead you towards a hands-free orgasm!

Internal stimulation

The vibrators described above are suitable for external stimulation. However, there are also many vibrators on the market that can be inserted. A great example is the rabbit vibrator, which can stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot simultaneously. Of course, you can also use a good old dildo during your solo sessions!

There are dildos in different shapes and sizes. Some are designed to look like a real penis and have a veined shaft and a firm ball sack. Other dildos, for example those made of glass and metal, have a completely different look. They feel firmer and are also sensitive to temperature changes. There are also dildos with a suction cup base. These sex toys can be attached to any smooth and flat surface, making hands-free masturbation possible.

Masturbation techniques for women

Make sure you have short nails.
Apply lubricant, saliva or vaginal fluid to your fingers.
Is the stimulation a little too much? Try moving around the clitoris.

Through the fabric

Keep your underwear on and rub against your clitoris through the fabric. You can also put a pillow between your legs and gently rub your hips against it. This works best when you lie on your stomach with the pillow between your legs.

The scissors

Spread your labia apart with your index and middle finger. This will ensure that you clitoris is positioned exactly in the middle. Move your hand from top to bottom or from left to right. If necessary, you can squeeze your fingers a little. This is a good way to get warmed up. You don’t touch the clit, but still come close enough to get your fire going.

“This is a good way to get warmed up. You don’t touch the clit, but still come close enough to get your fire going.”

Clitoral stimulation using your fingers

Once you’ve warmed up nicely, it’s time to start focusing on the clitoris. Make sure you’ve got some lubricant at hand and apply it to your index and middle finger. Gently rub two fingers over the clitoris, alternating with some finger work if you like. Some women also like to gently tap the clitoris with two fingers. You can also use a toy, such as a clitoral vibrator.

Internal stimulation

While stimulating the clitoris, you can also go inside with one finger. The easiest way to do this is to use your middle finger, simply because it’s the longest. If it feels good, you can also choose to go in with a second finger.

The showerhead

The shower can be a very nice and exciting setting to play with yourself. Many women enjoy the jets from the showerhead, and you won’t be the first one to come in this way! Keep the showerhead at a distance and experiment with the jet intensity. You’ll soon discover what you like best.

You’re all set to start masturbating! Were these tips useful for you?

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Love Lessons #2 – Masturbation for advanced enthusiasts