Non-sexual things men find attractive

Last time, we wrote about non-sexual things that women find attractive, so of course, now we’re writing about things men find attractive. Spoiler: it’s super cute! Read on to find out what melts men’s hearts. Here are 6 things men find attractive.

What men find attractive

We’re not saying that men are easy creatures, but they are easy to seduce with superficial things like big breasts, round buttocks, and full lips. However, we wouldn’t be doing justice to this sturdy breed if we didn’t reveal that men are also really cute and deep. Perhaps men are much more complex than many women think… But we’ll discuss that in another article! Today, we’ll talk about 6 things men find attractive (besides breasts, buttocks, and full lips)!

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#1 The way you look at him

You know the feeling. When you look at him and can’t wait to feel his hands all over your body. Or when he does something so charming that your heart skips a beat, or when he looks at you with that smile that gives you the confidence that you’ll be together forever… When you think something like that, your eyes radiate it. Men pick up on that, and it’s that look that drives him crazy!

You know the expression ‘if looks could kill’, but looks can do so much more! Eye contact can be a really sexy form of foreplay, and men are very sensitive to this.

“Eye contact is super sexy foreplay that drives men absolutely crazy!”

#2 If you take care of him

Not every woman is necessarily caring, but if you are, you’ll have those men wrapped around your finger in no time! Making sure he eats enough fruit and vegetables, bringing a cup of coffee when he’s working from home, folding his laundry… It’s the little caring things that women do that men love. We don’t want to give anyone a mommy-syndrome, but men probably love it because it reminds them of the old days when they were well looked after by their mothers.

“The little caring things like bringing a cup of coffee or making sure he eats enough fruit.”

#3 A social life of your own

For both you and him. Few people find a mega-dependent partner without a life of their own attractive. On the other hand, someone who does their own thing, meets up with friends and family and has their own social circle, is attractive. Men find this attractive and enjoyable because it means they have the freedom and space to do their own thing too. It’s also attractive to see that a woman can stand on her own two feet, can take care of herself, and doesn’t need a man to be happy. A social life of her own shows that she can manage just fine without him, which in turn gives him the feeling that he should continue to do his best for her.

#4 Feeling like you need him (for some things)

Perhaps you could open that jar of peanut butter yourself if you’d really try, but if you ask your man to do it, he won’t mind at all. On the contrary. The primal instinct is still there, and men like to protect. They don’t mind feeling that women need them for the heavy lifting. It gives them the feeling that they are there for us and that they can protect us.

They can also find it very cute to watch us struggle with closed pots or that we need to balance on the tip of our toes to reach that highest shelf. We women know that we’re no longer the kind of desperately helpless woman who needs a man, but it can be attractive for both to play the role a little.

“Men find it attractive when women occasionally play the helpless woman in distress.”

#5 Passion

Passion is fire. Passion is indispensable. In a relationship, but also in life. If you don’t have anything you want to get up for every morning or a goal you’re working towards, you’re a bit stuck in life. And that’s not very sexy. It’s that ambition, passion and drive that are sexy. Men find that attractive too.

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#6 Humour and being yourself

There it is again, and it goes without saying. Everyone likes humour. So do men. They also find it very attractive when a woman dares to be herself. While many men appreciate it when women look well-groomed, they also like it when you feel so comfortable that you can chill with him in your jogging outfit without makeup.

Laughing unabashedly, making silly jokes, and eating whatever you want is not embarrassing and not unattractive at all. A woman who dares to be herself is self-assured, and that’s sexy!

What do you find really attractive?