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Different ways to stimulate the vagina

Miriam

30-08-2022 · 731 views · 0 comments

For women, it’s usually more difficult to reach orgasm than for men. Research even shows that women have an orgasm much more often with a woman during sex than with a man. High time to discuss the different ways to achieve vaginal stimulation, so you can make yourself or your partner reach an unprecedented climax!

The vagina

When we talk about the female genitalia, we often immediately think of the vagina. This is correct, but it’s not everything. The vagina is only the internal part and forms the connection between the uterus and the outside world. The vulva is the external part of the female genitalia. This includes the labia, the clitoris, the exit of the urethra, and the opening of the vagina.

The vagina as an erogenous zone

For many women, only the clitoris plays an essential role in achieving an orgasm. Nevertheless, vaginal stimulation can make the orgasm more complete and more intense. This has to do with the presence of nerve endings in the vagina in combination with the branches from the clitoris to the vagina.

The G-spot is also located about 3 to 5 cm deep inside the vagina. The lucky women who have discovered the G-spot can elicit a powerful orgasm through stimulation of this spot. With an orgasm via the G-spot, fluid can be released. Sometimes a few drops, sometimes more. This is also called squirting or female ejaculation.

Did you know that… the average length of a vagina, measured from the front of the cervix to the outside world, is 6.29 cm?

Different ways to achieve vaginal stimulation

There are numerous toys and techniques that can be used for vaginal stimulation, but deep penetration can also help a woman stimulate the vagina and reach an orgasm.

Vaginal balls

Ben Wa balls, Geisha balls and love balls; there are different names for vaginal balls, but they all boil down to the same thing. Vaginal balls are balls that you can insert into the vagina. Smaller ones have a diameter of 2 cm, but there are also balls with a diameter of 4.5 to 5 cm. The balls are often made of metal. You can use them during foreplay, but they’re also very suitable for training your pelvic floor muscles.

The balls can also be used during penetration. It’s possible that the man touches them with his penis, but this is not harmful for either of you. However, it is recommended to use a single large ball instead of two smaller ones.

There are different types of vagina balls available: Kegel balls, the classic Ben Wa balls and vibrating models.

Vibrating eggs

A vibrating egg is a nice addition to enhance your sex life. This small egg can create great sensations. A vibrating egg is a compact vibrator and can often be controlled with a remote control. The egg can be inserted vaginally but can also be used as a clitoral vibrator.

The egg can be used solo but also with a partner. How does it work? She inserts the egg, and her partner controls the remote. Hotness guaranteed!

Dildo

A dildo is a sex toy that has the shape and look of a real penis. You can use this sex toy to masturbate with, but you can also use it for foreplay. Unlike a vibrator, a dildo does not give off vibrations.

With a dildo, the bigger the size, the more intense the stimulation. Therefore, you can choose an XL dildo, but you can also go for a realistic dildo. Thanks to the realistic veins, look and feel, you’ll experience the feeling of “real life” sex.

Vibrators

A vibrator can be used for vaginal, clitoral, and anal stimulation. The toy can be used during masturbation, but it’s often also used by couples during foreplay or sex. A vibrator has one or more vibration modes which provide extra stimulation to the erogenous zones.

They come in many different shapes, sizes, and colours. For vaginal stimulation, it is best to choose a large vibrator or powerful vibrator. A nice addition to these vibrators is the rabbit vibrator, which also simulates the clitoris.

Positions for vaginal stimulation

Deep penetration can be very pleasurable when done at a steady pace, and it can help a woman to stimulate the vagina and reach an orgasm. In some cases, deep penetration can also reach the G-spot.

The lotus

For this position, the man should sit cross-legged. The woman then sits on his lap, facing the man. She wraps her legs around the man and then moves from front to back. As she has her legs around the man, it becomes possible to penetrate deeply. With this position, it’s also possible to stimulate other erogenous zones simultaneously.

The jackhammer

Not the easiest sex position to perform, but it does allow for deep penetration. She lies on her back with her ankles in the air. The man hangs above her and “squats” up and down. As the blood flows to her head, the position feels a bit more intense.

Yoni massage

The yoni massage is a massage in which the vagina receives optimal stimulation. It’s a sensual massage without any sexual purpose. It’s not about fingering – a yoni massage goes much further than that. The massage can lead to an orgasm, but it doesn’t have to. There are special yoni massage workshops, but you can also try to practise this massage yourself.

What is your favourite way to stimulate your vagina?

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Different ways to stimulate the vagina